Saturday, May 25, 2013

I don't usually rant, but when I do...

So I thought that next time I'd post here, I'd be sharing some more progress, maybe some resources and a couple of inspiration boosts. But guess what? UH OH, I feel like ranting.

I have lately seen lot of people do silly stupid things and have extremely unrealistic and rude expectations from people. What is the cause of this? Love of course. But no matter how love sick you are, there are a couple of things I'd like to point out. I hope everyone takes it into account, since let's be honest: there are huge assholes in the masses of all genders.

So to begin with this, first things first. People have the right to feel as they feel. If they don't feel anything towards you, they don't have to! Friendzone is not a punishment with malicious intention. It is just how they feel for you. No one is required to return your feelings, if they don't. Honestly, you should just be happy that they are honest about it and don't try to give you false hope out of pity.

So if they are not interested in you? Leave them alone on that aspect. If something changes, they are likely to come back to you and if they don't. Well, you have the right to move on and not wait for them. To be honest, stalking someone for 6 years and waiting for an opening is not romantic nor loyal. IT IS CREEPY~

But what if they right out throw you out of their lives? If there was no reason, dick move. But proves very well you should move on, since such behavior is not okay towards you either. If it was because what you did or said. Tough luck, suck it up and respect them enough to respect their choice. Throwing yourself onto them again and again and sneaking in from Facebook, Twitter or whatever anonymously or just as well in real life is very disgusting choice. You should realize that by doing so, you are trying to bash down their choice of not letting anyone degrade them again. Be respectful, take a note to learn from in the future and walk away.

Your happiness is not tied to this one person not returning your feelings, it is about your own choice.  If you decide to dwell in the unreturned love to make yourself miserable, it is your choice. You cannot blame them for it. Choosing to move on may not be easy and starting to believe into the choice takes a while, but choosing not to is just plain lazy.

Other people have feelings and rights and yours are not any more important than theirs. RESPECT THEIR CHOICE! Thank you~

PS. Huge props and tipping hat for everyone having the balls to respect the other person's choice, even if you wished they chose otherwise.

Damn man, you even get a bow on top of the deal.


  1. i'm a boy who is getting friendzoned and i entirely agree.

    except on the being a creep part. you're not a creep if you stay friends with someone you romantically love for about 6 years. you're just someone who is too scared to tell someone you love them. that's it. some dudes won't tell someone for years.

    but either way, if they don't love you back, tough break. don't stalk them full stop.

    1. There is a difference in stalking and being a friend~